"Joint Custody" is not only an issue for parents

[Renate]

"Joint Custody" is not only an issue for parents with children who are 'splitting'...It is an issue for the entire family. Children form important attachments with uncles, aunts, grandparents,nieces/nephews, great-grand parents, and for those so blessed--great-great grandparents. I have not seen my niece from my sister's broken marriage now for over seven years. She has written me and her great-grandmother letters several times, but our mail to her is returned marked "Unable to Deliver"...we have tried everything...and yes..even legal recourse---to no avail. Meanwhile, my niece grows up without us and we without her---our love remains. I pray she is well everyday. I can not say how much this has affected her...but her attachment to this part of the family was great. Children should be protected in courts, with the goal always..."in the best interest of the child."

[giuseppe]

Concordo pienamente con Olive.
I figli hanno diritto a mantenere significativi rapporti con TUTTI i loro parenti.
Questo è evidentemente nel loro interesse.
Per ora in Italia ciò è stato affermato occasionalmente in diverse sentenze dei tribunali.
Con la Riforma proposta, questo principio dovrà diventare la regola.
P.S. La Riforma sta andando avanti in Commissione Giustizia. Speriamo che possa passare alle Camere e essere approvata entro l' anno 2004.
RINGRAZIO CHI PUò FARE UNA TRADUZIONE DELLA MIA RISPOSTA
saluti a tutti

[giuseppe]

LaSignoraMusica ha tradotto. Grazie
http://www.andreabocelli.org/forum2/pro ... ofile&u=19

I agree completely with Olive. The children have the right to maintain
significant relationship with ALL their parents. This is clearly in their
interest.
For the moment in Italy this has been confirmed occasionally in diverse
tribunal judgements. With the proposed Reformation, this prisciple has to
become the rule.
P.S. The Reformation goes first to the Commission of Justice. We hope that
it can pass the Chamber and will be approved during the year 2004.
Greetings to everyone.

[giuseppe]

Francesca ha tradotto. Grazie
http://www.andreabocelli.org/forum2/pro ... ofile&u=53

Je suis pleinement d'accord avec Olive.
Les enfants ont le droit de garder des rapports significatifs avec TOUS leurs parents.
Ceci est évidemment dans leur intérêt.
Pour le moment en Italie cela a été affirmé occasionnellement dans différents jugements des tribunaux.
Avec la Réforme proposée, ce principe devra devenir la règle.
P.S. La Réforme va de l'avant en Commission de Justice. Nous espérons qu'elle puisse passer aux Chambres et être approuvée pendant l'année 2004.

Salut à tous

[giuseppe]

Question:
Do I understand correctly? Under Italian law it is normal for one parent (often the father) to be stopped from seeing his children altogether, even if the children want to see him and he wants to see them?


I try to explain:
A father has responsibility and authority.
With the exclusive Custody a father has’ t any responsibility and authority.
He must only pay every month and he cannot decide anything.
If there is something he don’t think appropriate in the upbringing of his sons he can only apply to the court. After two years it may be he will obtain a reply……

I cannot see my daughter for many years. Not: [I have not been allowed to see her for many years].


I have always been allowed to see my daughter bat there is the P.A.S.
PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME
Look:
http://associazioni.comune.firenze.it/c ... nglese.htm

Unfortunately it is easy to reach the PAS.
Who is divorced Knows the PAS.

Giuseppe Iraso
http://www.crescere-insieme.org
email: giuseppe@crescere-insieme.org